My parents are still happily married, I have an aunt and uncle though who are also happily married, but their ex's out of nowhere are trying to get custody of the kids that they had together. There's basically 3 parties of kids here, the one kid on my uncles side, the 3 kids on my aunts side, then the 2 kids they had together. This whole thing is really tearing my entire family apart because my uncle can't be around any of the kids unless they're the two he had with his new spouse. Unless he has visitation rights, so we have to watch certain parties of kids several times a week. Which in and of itself isn't really a problem considering how often they used to visit before all this trouble, but these aren't actual visits anymore, they're just babysittings that last anywhere from 10 minutes to several hours. The stupidest part is that my grandma who practically raised one of the kids has a restraining order too. She wasn't able to come to our thanksgiving family reunion because of it.